Whitewater Rafting Colorado Knowledge Base
Beginner going on a Colorado whitewater rafting trip? We are vacationing in colorado in August, and we plan on going on the Royal gourge whitewater trip, which is Class III-IV rapids. We are 27 and we both can swim and are in decent shape. We are not daredevils but is this trip going to too much for us or is it basically fun and not too hard for the inexperienced rafters. Should we just stick with the Class I-II rapids? I liked the Royal Gourge route cause it goes under the suspension bridge. Any tips are greatly appreciated.
Where are the best places to go whitewater rafting in Colorado? Me and my 3 friends are going to Colorado somewhere around Colorado Springs or Rocky Mountain National Park. We plan on going in early to mid June next summer. We are all 18 year old boys and want to go rafting. I have moderate experience rafting but they have none. We are all athletic though so I am sure we could handle class iv or class v rapids unless its like gore canyon. Please give advice on where to go rafting and what other great activities we should do on this trip.
Where should we go whitewater rafting near Denver, CO? Hey, We're trying to find a place to go whitewater rafting near Denver, Colorado. We want to go for a day to III-IV rapids. We're adventurous first-timers (3 college seniors) and are stopping by on a roadtrip. I was wondering which companies are best to do whitewater rafting, and which rapids are the best? Also, where are they? The companies list names like Arkansas river, but where ON the river is the rafting? Thanks for your help!
Is there a Las Vegas Colorado Rafting Trip? Hi, I'm going to be on a Las Vegas vacation with my family this summer and we are looking for fun things to do. I read that you can take a Colorado River rafting tour but I forgot to bookmark it. Anyone got any info on this? I'm not interested in kayaking or whitewater trips because my younger sibs are in their tweens.
Where are the best vacation places in Colorado? Our family is taking a vacation to Colorado in May. It my dad and mom and me and my five siblings (ages 12-24). Most of us love outdoors and nature. I was wondering what are the best things to do in Colorado. I've heard about whitewater rafting, estes park, garden of the gods, ect. I also think it would be fun to climb a mountain. Any suggestions?
Questions about Colorado or similar locations around the world? Where are the best places to find quality year round 3 & 4 guided whitewater rafting rivers. Beginner and Intermediate Mountains to climb. Within 30 minutes of a big city. Offers a good College for studying: Life, English, Writing, & Philosophy. hmmm Guess I need a great college with an awsome outdoors program and great philosphy/english programs. Where can I find what I'm looking for? Is it in Colorado?
What is the best place to Vacation during the Summer In Colorado? My Dad had a stroke earlier this year and we want to get a away for a nice family vacation. Parents are 60 and My bro and I are 31, and 27. So our interests would include hiking, fishing, canoeing, maybe whitewater rafting.... and just relaxing! We plan on staying in a cabin during June :) Thanks!!
Where should I plan a summer vacation to in Colorado? We are wanting to rent a cabin for a few days and have several activities in mind. This are some of the things we are wanting to do. 1. Whitewater Rafting 2. Golf 3. Jeep Tours to old Ghost Towns 4. Any other fun things What would be the best place or area to go? Thank you.
Las Vegas Colorado River Rafting? I'm looking for a tour for my family that lets us take a mellow rafting tour down the Colorado River during our Las Vegas vacation. Not interested in kayaking or whitewater.
What is the best whitewater rafting trip near Las Vegas? Im planning on going to LV for my bachelor party next May-June. I was wondering if you locals could recommend an awesome white water rafting company excursion that my buddies and I could take while out there. We'd probably go out there for a long weekend, and stay on the strip. Not looking for an all day trip, hopefully just 4-6 hours of excitement so we can get back to gambling. On an experience level- most of us have kayaks and have been on white waters a handful of times. The more life threatening the better in my opinion. We do want to try out a large raft-type of craft rather than kayaks however. Is the Colorado River an option? website links appreciated- thanks!
How do I go out and see America.? This summer I am going to take a break for a few weeks, and go see America. I am 17 years old, and I will be going with a few friends. I know that I am definetly going to go whitewater rafting down the Colorado River, but that is the only thing I can think of. Is there any cheap ways to see america? and what should I go see? By the way, I will be traveling by car, and I live in Minnesota.
ill be 18 in November, Colorado for spring break or Florida on the beach with friends, road trip help me decid? Well in spring break 2011 me and my friends can decide to go to a beach house in Daytona for only 25 a night cause our friends uncle owns it. or our other friends brothers live in Colorado and work at a hotel. He can get us a suite for 89 a night and we would get cheap ski/snowboarding lift tickets for the week. what would be more fun we cant decide, either party it up daytona or kayak, whitewater raft, snowboard, ski in Colorado. We will all be 18 by then, and we would be driving Chicago, illinios area to Avon Co, or Daytona Fl
Can you read my long story and please help me, I am so sad.? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He stated pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice.
please read, why would he now act like I never existed? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He stated pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice.
Is there anyone who wants to listen to my problem and give me advice? anyone? Please I am so sad.? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He stated pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesnt have to opretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Thank you Meggie.
What is wrong with me, I definetly can't let go! I love him so much and he acts like I never existed.Help....? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He started pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. She has never had a man in her life and I made sure that we were together for a long time and he was so good to us before they got real close. I thought we would be together forever as we talked about marriage a lot and even knew where we would buy our home. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice. I sent him another e-mail this morning. I am heart broken and I cry all day.
I need to know what some really good attractions near colorado springs are.? my family and i are going on a vacation this summer to colorado springs. One problem. I have know idea what there is to do. I am an outdoors type and i already know we are going whitewater rafting if we can find some great rates(if you know where to do it cheap please speak up) i also would like to take a short 1 or 2 mile hike up the mountain. (it can't be to long my mom has a bad neck and my dad a bad back) I LOVE photography so if you know any places to take really good pics please list. I would also like to take a jeep tour. please specify which one and price. I need to be able to plan a 7 day trip. I would like to know what there is to do and whether it is a half a day or a whole day event. What are some of the hotels that are not to pricy and have a pool ($0 - $75). Do you know of any good restraunts that are not exspensive. Please help me out and give me ideas of what to do. We are not going to do the COG train beacause of it being so pricy. Shopping places?
Cabins in Colorado? My husband and I are going to Colorado in July and what are the best areas to camp in cabins furthest from town? Also a good place to whitewater raft and horseback ride?
Tipping question ***help*** Ok, I'm going to the Grand Canyon to go Whitewater rafting down the colorado river. We will be taking a tour bus to the rafting destination, then we will go rafting, then we will be taking a helicopter ride out of the canyon and then the bus ride home. Oh yeah, we will be eating lunch there too. My question is: What is the proper tip to give to the 1. Bus driver 2. the rafter guide 3. the helicopter pilot Help, I don't want to look like a jerk here. thanks
Are cool bars in the mountains near Denver Colorado? My friends an I are going on a trip to Denver in June, we want to have an awesome time and experience some cool things in Denver. We already have whitewater rafting, brewery tour, and a rockies game planned. We are early to mid 20's and are open to any fun suggestions regarding nightlife or activities. Awesome, first let me say yahoo answers is awesome though i have no idea how to use it. How did you find my question?! We are going rafting at Clear creek about 35mins. outside of denver. I have more questions IF you get this response do you have an email address i can get or what is the best form of communication through this...?
Which would you rather do...? ...Snooze in a small fishin' boat, on a quiet pond, until your line bobs. ...Party on the lake, on a pontoon boat, with a group of drinking buddies ...Pump up your adrenaline, doing some whitewater rafting in the Colorado mountains
Vacation Ideas? My brother is getting surgery because he tore his ACL. My family and I were going to go to Colorado, going hiking, whitewater rafting, and a bunch of outdoors stuff. We don't want him to be in pain, however, after his surgery. We were thinking something with swimming and relaxing but still fun and different. We live in the Chicago area and would like to keep it close but still different and adventerous. Any cool ideas? Thanks!!
peircingggg hellllppp? okay so im finnally allowed to get my belly button pierced but august 6th-13th im going to the grandcanyon for this like whitewater rafting trip down the colorado river. i dont want it to get infected and its in lieka week and a half. if i get it done tmrw will there stil be a chance it'll get infected cuz i wil be spendiing alot of time in the water, help please need back up when i explain my point to my dad
Places to stay near Canon City? During a Colorado road-trip, my girlfriend and I are going to go whitewater rafting in Canon City. We're guessing we might be exhausted afterwards, and want to stay somewhere that's somewhat nearby (less than 1 hour away). Any ideas? Perhaps just stay in Canon City itself?
River with lots of rapids the whole way? It seems like rivers like the Colorado which are known for rapids eventually mellow out and are no more fun for rafting. If I were with a group of experienced rafters, are there any rivers with plenty of whitewater throughout? Thanks!
Best places to roadtrip to from chicago? I'm a 20 year old college kid looking for a cool place to take a roadtrip to from chicago. We're willing to drive 15 hours, maybe a little more. So far we've come up with Toronto, whitewater rafting in West Virgina, Myrtle Beach, or maybe Colorado. Can anyone offer some more suggestions or comment on the places we've already come up with? new orleans is also another option but I'd like to save it for when we're 21 so that the full experience isnt contingent on us having fake IDs
Where is the best resort for scuba diving and salmon fishing on the Platte River in Nebraska? Also, I want to run some whitewater rapids on the Platte too. Do you think the salmon fishing there is as good as it is in the Arkansas River in Oklahoma? I want to find a good place for these activities where it is not too crowded and where there are lots of five star restaurants and spas for relaxation after a hard day of salmon fishing and scuba diving and whitewater rafting. This is a surprise trip for my husband. He has been fishing, rafting and diving in lots of yicky places like Canada, Alaska, Colorado, Hawaii and Oregon. I want to take him someplace he has never been like Nebraska or Oklahoma. Thank you in advance for your help!
I need some advice on some outdoorsy stuff...? So i just came back from colorado, where i had a TOTALLY active week, with horsebackriding everyday, and whitewater rafting, rock climbing, bouldering, and a bunch of other really fun adverntours things, now, im back in boring wisconsin, and all i can go is where my bike and i can take me. Right now, all my friends are on vacatoin, and my parents won't drive me anywhere, so what can i do thats fun and adventourous, in my neighbor hood and town?? Also, something i could maybe do like today...
What are some other fun things to do on a road trip? Me and my friend are going on almost a month long road trip this summer. Here's a list of things we've already planned on doing: *parasailing *jet skiing *whale watching *snorkeling *ziplining *horseback riding *ATVing *canoeing *whitewater rafting *kayaking *and possibly bungee jumping We're going to Florida, Texas, Arizona, California, Washington, Utah and Colorado. My question is, can anyone think of any other fun things to do? (apart from shopping and attractions and stuff like that. I'm looking more for activity ideas.) Thanks in advance!
After just how many hundreds of millions do we say enough to Sasha and Malia's Awesome Summer Vacation? NBC local says: The Obama Girls Had a Better Summer Than You You can't compete with this "f Malia and Sasha Obama write "How I Spent My Summer Vacation" essays as they head back to school this week, oh, the stories they can tell. The tweens have prowled the Kremlin in trench coats, roamed a Harry Potter movie set in London, and studied slave history in Africa as they racked up tens of thousands of miles crisscrossing the Atlantic Ocean, time zones and international borders with their parents this summer. Stateside, 11-year-old Malia and 8-year-old Sasha explored the American West on a family tour of Yellowstone National Park and the Grand Canyon. They went whitewater rafting in the rain and hail in Montana, watched Old Faithful shoot steam skyward, and spent time picking peaches in Colorado. Summer ended with a week at a secluded estate on Martha's Vineyard in Massachusetts, where the girls dug their toes in the sand at the beach, rode bikes and hung out at an arcade, followed by a final getaway to the presidential retreat at Camp David, Md. http://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/politics/Obama-Girls-Had-Better-Summer-Than-You-57704212.html Okay, I'll lower the estimate. Tens of millions. Just how much did their summer break cost the US taxapayer?
How should we best celebrate a hole in the ground? On January 11, 1908, U.S. President Theodore Roosevelt declares the massive Grand Canyon in northwestern Arizona a national monument. Though Native Americans lived in the area as early as the 13th century, the first European sighting of the canyon wasn't until 1540, by members of an expedition headed by the Spanish explorer Francisco Vasquez de Coronado. Because of its remote and inaccessible location, several centuries passed before North American settlers really explored the canyon. In 1869, geologist John Wesley Powell led a group of 10 men in the first difficult journey down the rapids of the Colorado River and along the length of the 277-mile gorge in four rowboats. By the end of the 19th century, the Grand Canyon was attracting thousands of tourists each year. One famous visitor was President Theodore Roosevelt, a New Yorker with a particular affection for the American West. After becoming president in 1901 after the assassination of President William McKinley, Roosevelt made environmental conservation a major part of his presidency. After establishing the National Wildlife Refuge to protect the country's animals, fish and birds, Roosevelt turned his attention to federal regulation of public lands. Though a region could be given national park status--indicating that all private development on that land was illegal--only by an act of Congress, Roosevelt cut down on red tape by beginning a new presidential practice of granting a similar "national monument" designation to some of the West's greatest treasures. In January 1908, Roosevelt exercised this right to make more than 800,000 acres of the Grand Canyon area into a national monument. "Let this great wonder of nature remain as it now is," he declared. "You cannot improve on it. But what you can do is keep it for your children, your children’s children, and all who come after you, as the one great sight which every American should see." Congress did not officially outlaw private development in the Grand Canyon until 1919, when President Woodrow Wilson signed the Grand Canyon National Park Act. Today, more than 5 million people visit the canyon each year. The canyon floor is accessible by foot, mule or boat, and whitewater rafting, hiking and running in the area are especially popular. Many choose to conserve their energies and simply take in the breathtaking view from the canyon's South Rim--some 7,000 feet above sea level--and marvel at a vista virtually unchanged for over 400 years.
Questions about Colorado or similar locations around the world? Where are the best places to find quality year round 3 & 4 guided whitewater rafting rivers. Beginner and Intermediate Mountains to climb. Within 30 minutes of a big city. Offers a good College for studying: Life, English, Writing, & Philosophy. hmmm Guess I need a great college with an awsome outdoors program and great philosphy/english programs. Where can I find what I'm looking for? Is it in Colorado?
Can you read my long story and please help me, I am so sad.? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He stated pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice.
What is wrong with me, I definetly can't let go! I love him so much and he acts like I never existed.Help....? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He started pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. She has never had a man in her life and I made sure that we were together for a long time and he was so good to us before they got real close. I thought we would be together forever as we talked about marriage a lot and even knew where we would buy our home. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice. I sent him another e-mail this morning. I am heart broken and I cry all day.
What is wrong with me, I definetly can't let go! I love him so much and he acts like I never existed.Help....? My boyfriend completely changed after he took his new job out of town. He stated pushing me away and stopped coming home to visit.We had plans to one day get married and even knew the street we were going to live on. He called my daughter his own and he was the sweetest guy ever. All of a sudden he is ignoring me and acting so different. He had said he needed to get his life settled and sorted and thought we should go our own ways for now until he gets his issues resolved. I responded by telling him I wasn't interested in doing that and if he wants to go our own ways it would be permanent. I asked him if that was what he wanted and he still hasn't answered me. That was two week ago. I told him he would have to delete the status and everything on facebook because it wasn't my choice it was his. He has ignored my attempts to talk to him and even my phone calls and he has logged on to facebook everyday and has not deleted anything. He hasn't done anything and I just don't know what to do. He says he is going through so many issues and that no one will understand not even his family friends or me. He hasn't seen me in over a month and he is usually a really sweet guy. He is completely ignoring me now. I even told him that I completely understand if My daughter and I don't fit into his life anymore and I just love him and I want to see him happy even if its not with me but he needs to tell me something. He ignores that even. He even ignored my daughters request to see him on Fathers day.She called him and even dropped a card off on his door at his house here. She calls him dad. I mean he was the sweetest guy before and he would help a fly even. I just don't understand because I have given him plenty of chances to get out of the relationship yet he doesn't take it. However he doesn't give our relationship anything it needs to survive. He had told me when he took this job that we would have to just see each other on the weekends and then he said I needed to agree to move there one day if we ever got married and I did. Immediately after that it all fell apart??? I just don't understand. I love him with all my heart. I mean he has always been scared of the next steps in our relationship but I never thought so scared he would tun away like this? I have never wanted anything so bad in my life. yesterday was father's day and he posted pictures where he went to Colorado whitewater rafting. He was doing that while I am at home crying over him meanwhile my daughter is upset and trying to call him. She has never had a man in her life and I made sure that we were together for a long time and he was so good to us before they got real close. I thought we would be together forever as we talked about marriage a lot and even knew where we would buy our home. He is showing me with every action or inaction he doesn't want us in his life anymore but why can't I let go? I mean he was never this way. And to me it is so hard because he will not talk to me. I haven't done anything wrong to him and neither has my daughter. Why is he doing this in this way? I told him if he wants to break up it doesn't have to get ugly or mean. He doesn't have to pretend we never even existed. I can handle it, I just want to know. Like the rapids he said when he met us he never wanted to do them anymore because he had us to worry about then he does the rapids and posts he scariest pics possible on facebook? It is like he is reverting back to how he was before we were around. ? Please any advice. I sent him another e-mail this morning. I am heart broken and I cry all day.
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